Dave asked me out again.  I just turned him down.

I have such mixed feelings about everything.  I want so badly to be out of this rut, but I'm just not ready to date and if I'm being honest, I just don't see myself with Dave.  He's a very nice guy, but I don't know.  It's so hard to explain.  I know how I feel when I really like someone and I don't get that feeling with him.  So it's a mixture of still being miserable, still missing Shawn, and not feeling attracted to Dave.  

I hope I'm not making a mistake.